The bitter truth: People judge book by its cover.
We humans
have this hostile animal living within us. Maybe our superegos face it sometimes,
but when it fails to control the animal, nothing but repugnance beholds the
power and everything else gets disheveled. No doubt this animal
affects the most important part of our human lives: our judgement. Failing to
make a right judgement is the worst thing a human can do, because sometimes
once it is done, you cannot go back and change it. It is so hard for even our
own morality to handle our disconcerted mind, it is nearly arduous sometimes.
So while making judgement, do you have to judge a book by its cover or
not?
Of course there is no rule to control your thoughts and how your brains
work, so the answer is yes. Yes, you can. But sometimes you might have to let
your superego take over when you speak the things hovering in your mind (you need to have a filter!), you need to make sure that those
words are not irrelevant in the situations your are in.
Many philosophers and spiritual leaders are more likely to state that
people should not judge a book by its cover, rather a they have to think
about it carefully before making any judgments. Which is morally true and that
is how a human should be like. But in this busy era of competition, they are
compelled to choose a book by its cover. People don’t have time to venture
through a book store and read every book’s synopsis, do they?
“You can
easily tell a horrible book from a good book just by looking at the cover. You
can easily tell a scary book from a light book just by looking at the cover.
You can easily infer if a person is worth your time or not, not by looking at
their cover but via communication skills. You don't have to get to know someone
to understand if they are worth your time or not.” (debate.org, author: Unknown)
.
Whoever
wrote this, it made me feel that the person was a little more caustic, but it
is the truth! Most of the time, we just look at a person and give them our time
accordingly, rather than carefully judging him/her (though we have no clue what
a person is going through, which is of course pretty bad). But again, we do judge
people by how they look like or the way they act, this is just inevitable.
Let us take
a moment with ourselves and listen to the deepest of our heart, and for one moment
let us forget our superego. Think what a perfect human being would be like. Believe
it or not but research has shown that majority of people tend to imagine the
physical appearances of human being to be perfect, but then their superego
rises up and their mind begins to think that a perfect human being is the one
who is honest, with good heart or something else. (Maybe really less number of
people do get the idea of a good heart though!)
Humans are
full of wonderfulness and mysteries; it is really hard to understand human
being and their nature. So it is also hard to accumulate everyone’s opinion in
this and draw a nice conclusion. But according to what I have felt and many
opinions I have studied, humans do judge a book by its cover.